The fundamental rules are as follows:
Consider the bonding in the methyl cation, CH3+. The molecular plane is a plane of symmetry.
On the left, the sp2 carbon orbital and the H1s both are symmetrical, and hence can interact to form an MO of the cation.
However, the carbon 2p orbital on the right is antisymmetric, and cannot interact with the symmetric H1s. Hence no MO can form from this pair of orbitals.
Another example: The two double bonds of bis(methylene)adamantane have been suggested to be s-conjugated; that is, to interact with each other by way of overlap with the intervening s-framework of the adamantane.

However, the p orbitals of one double bond must be orthogonal to the p orbitals forming the other.
The HOMO and LUMO of the molecule, from B3LYP/6-31G* density functional calculations show this very clearly:
| HOMO | LUMO |
|---|---|
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This is the sense in which we commonly will make use of the symmetry of molecular orbitals: a qualitative determination of whether two orbitals can interact.
One can, for many simple molecules, describe the full set of molecular orbitals using these ideas. However, we have computer programs that can do this much more rapidly than we can.
If you would like to see a version of the construction of the MOs of ethylene different from that in your book, continue on through the rest of these pages.